No one has spoken about the danger of children playing with romance.
Pro-family conservatives have long preached that young people should practice physical abstinence before marriage. It is unrealistic to expect a teenager who has been pursuing emotional romance since age 12, and a limited physical relationship for about the same length of time, to refrain from sexual relations until he marries a decade later.
This spring, a 14-year-old boy lay brain dead in a Mississippi hospital from a self-inflicted gunshot wound.
The cause of his despair was a romantic breakup with his girlfriend.
As the horde of rush-hour cars streamed by, Bill reminisced about the teenage daughter he had just picked up from band practice.The test is Rom - "true love does no harm to a neighbour and fulfills the law." So we must find a lawful way for our young people to fall in love and prepare for marriage. It is an established cultural norm to be followed without further question.Most parents continue to allow dating because it is the way that they did things in their day, and they believe that they survived.Believe it or not, they will reach through you to the next generation, to your children and eventually to your grandchildren.You must realize that as you come of age, someone or something (a group or philosophy) is going to set a standard or lack of one for how you deal with the opposite sex.Like many home schooling families, my wife Vickie and I have chosen the courtship model for our children as an alternative to dating.