And while both men and women are guilty of that, more men say “I do” again after divorce, and they’re quicker to say it, too.
Perhaps not as quickly as actor and now new daddy Mark-Paul Gosselaar — he proposed to Catriona Mc Ginn just three months after his divorce from Lisa Ann Russell was finalized — but certainly fast enough for people to wonder, “In my experience as a therapist and as a friend, it seems that the majority of the breakup resources available are for women and not men.
They have given many examples of relationships that began quickly after a separation/break-up, so I am beginning to wonder if I am selling myself short – being too rigid.
For some, the question was, what is he doing with someone 30 years his junior?
Girlfriend Michelle Sucillon was 51 and Aldrin was 81 at the time.
You had too much going on during your divorce to possibly consider dating. This same script, I’m reminded, played out in the life of one of my favorite clients who fell in love with a separated man.
Therefore, you seem to think all men should feel the same way. But you are correct in proceeding with a sense of caution. Not because he listed himself as divorced but is really separated. He gave a lot to her during their time together, but, when it got right down to it, he really needed to sow his oats for awhile.