How's your attitude about life, being gay or dating? It's important to consider these things when looking for a date.
If you give off an air of arrogance, try loosening up a bit. Right if you don't have a vision of what he looks like? This may sound like a silly exercise, but a few minutes with a pad and paper can help you focus on finding the right man for you.
As soon as we put a finger in one hole another one opens up. Your body language changes when you see somebody hot. Hidden camera studies show that a man's posture changes when he sees somebody that turns him on. Body language doesn't just reflect your inner emotions. Keeping your body language "open" isn't just critical to changing other people's moods and attitudes; it's critical to changing yours. After a few minutes, you'll get quieter, more introspective and less likely to smile or laugh.
You may think you look calm, cool and collected, but look down -- your foot's tapping the floor like a woodpecker. This concept doesn't just apply to your hands or your palms; it applies to everything. It's the body's built-in feedback loop -- "bad mood" body positions result in bad moods, period. Uncross your arms and keep your palms open for a couple of minutes. Is that your spirit lifting or are you just happy to see me?
This goes for any gesture or movement that forms a barrier -- holding your hands together, crossing your legs, closing your knees, slouching, or holding anything that blocks your chest, heart and stomach. He turned his body toward me, made lots of eye contact, and directed most of the conversation to me.
Guilty feet have got no rhythm, but they never lie. If you want to meet gay men, pay attention to these five core principles of gay male body language.
If you don't normally smile, try giving guys a quick grin.
Sexual signals bounce all over the place whenever gay men get together, and they're being sent with heads, eyes, arms, hands, legs, and feet. The more you "fake" open and inviting gestures and expressions, the more genuinely open and inviting you'll become. If you want to attract gay men, heed this principle. The best way to meet and attract gay guys is to use open and inviting gestures.
Keeping your body open and inviting is so important to attracting guys that almost nothing else matters.